Friday, 3 June 2016

Femininity

What is femininity? Should a human born with female physiology have only feminine attributes? But isn't feminine attributes socially defined and hence personal and subjective? Can one's identity be really defined on physiology? Why do I like perceived masculine activities like gym, weight lifting, wearing men's style shoes, watches, perfume etc? Is it a practiced attitude to minimize gender discrimination? I believe so... my contribution for what its worth... I realize, its also a kind of attitude to display invulnerability.
But can it go against the grain or create conflict in my intended birth and its fulfillment? Don't think so.
Femininity is there definitely.. but not generally available. Only feminine to the strongly masculine. And not only physiologically. Its masculinity in attitude; receptive to feminine softness without exploitation; trustworthy in vulnerability; accepting of one's true form without prejudices giving freedom to be the true self... without masks and facades..
How many real, masculine men are out there to discover and enjoy the delicious femininity in a masculine female ? Strong enough to see through and look beyond the camouflage to connect?

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